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Sunday, April 7, 2013

Be Proud to be a Dog Lover !!!






The day I got a cute puppy at my home, I really had no idea what I was getting into. It was a surprise from my dad. I was astonished seeing that puppy in my home. The reason was that I always wanted a dog at my home and my dad stunned me by bringing him as a surprise. Thanks to dad !!!



“A dog is the only thing on earth that loves you more than he loves himself.”
Josh Billings

  

I began with the premise that I wanted a experience as dog lover. A person can learn a lot from a dog, even a loony one like mine . Tommy (Tom) taught me about living each day with joy , about seizing the moment and following your heart. He taught me to appreciate the simple things-a walk in the bush, a marathon chase ,waking up from nap due to his barking and licking. And as he grew old and achy, he taught me about optimism in the face of unfavourable situations. He made me smile when I fought with someone, he only brought a laugh when I got angry to my parents. Mostly, he taught me about friendship and selflessness and, above all else, loyalty.




You must agree with the below quote by  Mark Twain :

“If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous he will not bite you. This is the principal difference between a dog and man.”

Though he troubles  my brother Ankur, Mom ,Dad and me many times but still he is the 3rd son of my family. Beloved of everyone.


  • The way he gets behind my mom and dad to go out and roam with them early morning and evening is worth watching.
  •  You can’t stop yourself doing googly voogly voosk (Learned from Ponds Adevtisement :P) to him when  he scratch you to ask food. I enjoy each and every moment talking to him.
  •  I enjoy shouting on him and the way he obeys me.
  • I love the way he jump on anyone when I approach to hit anyone.
  • I love when he silently comes  to my bed in night leaving his own bed. 
  •  I love teasing him and his Gurrrrrr…. Gurrrr  reaction.
  •  I love when he expects my support being  afraid of any other animal.
  • I love chasing him with threathening shout when he makes me run behind him.


Man is the Reasoning Animal. Such is the claim. I think it is open to dispute. Indeed, he is the Unreasoning Animal... In truth, man is incurably foolish. Simple things which other animals easily learn, he is incapable of learning. And I must say dogs are the one of the fastest learners  among animals.



To wind up I will say-  be proud to be a dog lover and be cheerfull !!!!!   Cheers Tom !!!!


Saturday, February 9, 2013

Ishq Wala Love





Being the Valentine week, how can we forget the topic “LOVE” . So thought of writing something for the occasion…for the time…for the moment…where love is showered all over the world with zest and zeal. Choosing the title of this post from a song of latest Karan Johar’s bollywood movie “Student Of  The Year” because it is just wow. This combination of words means a lot and it is apt for my topic “LOVE”.

Ye kya hua hai kya khabar yehi pata hai zyada hua
Ishq wala love ,
Agar ye usko bhi hua hai phir bhi mujhko zyada hua Ishq wala love’

Guys let me make it clear, please don’t infer any wrong thing about me since I am writing about LOVE :P. Nothing has happened to me and not suffering from any disease ‘Loveria’.This is  just my view about Love, the way we feel in love, the way we want in Love and what happens in love.



You know that there nobody who will back you up other than yourself. But really, that’s not true. It’s a fact, a human cannot survive without socializing. The lack of communication drives man insane. And whenever this ‘point’ in your life comes, you should know that you made it this much far only because of all the people you know and grew up with. In the smallest of ways, they have influenced you to become what you are now. Some people look for a perfect person to love. But, they don't realize that a person becomes perfect when we begin to love them.

Love is the feeling of care and affection we feel for other. 

Love is the feeling of loving a single special person in infinite & infinite ways.

Love  is to be someone special to make her smile with tears in your eyes.

Love is the feeling of missing one , each and every second of breathe. People say when you are missing someone that they are probably feeling the same, but  I don't think it's possible for her to miss me as much as I miss her. 

Love is listening to music or looking at pictures of her, Not to remind ourself of her but to feel as if  she is with you.

Love is the deepest fear to make her understand how exceptional she is, because I can never stand by anyone who is even half as special she is.

Love is to make her realize that there is no one like her, and she is beautiful in her own way.

Love is to make her feel that your arms are warmest and more soothing than anyone.

Love is the hurt feeling which rips you apart when you fight with her.

Love is the pain when you don’t talk to to her. And BOOM! Pillow gets wet.       

It's sweet when someone remembers every little detail about you, not because you keep reminding them... But because they pay attention. Love is all about saying sorry even though you didn’t do anything. Its all about loving someone like anything , doesn’t matter how much you are hurted. Love is not to tell her that you are upset because you feel that you will annoy her.

‘ Surkh wala, sauz wala, Faiz wala love
Hota hai jo love se jyada waise wala love
Ishq wala love’


Enjoy your valentine week guys !!!!

Sunday, December 9, 2012

God existence : Biggest Secret !!!


I don’t aim to hurt anyone feelings but my opinion as a strong atheist, is what I will jott down here and that we can in fact prove that god does not exist in the physical world.

Talking of beginnings and endings makes no sense if there is no clarity in the way we regard what we don't yet know.

“The debate on the existence of God is as old as human existence itself.


 I claim that this god is not a god! To say that god is universe - by getting knowledge of the universe we get knowledge of god - is to redefine the meaning of the word god. ‘Bing Bang’ was the reason for the universe creation and nothing else. This has nothing to do with the word God as it was defined by the "primitive" cultures which preceded our present civilization.

 There is no actual evidence for God's existence. For example:
  • God has never left any physical evidence of his existence on earth.
  • All historical gods were imaginary and we know it.
  • None of Jesus' "miracles" left any physical evidence either.
  • God has never spoken to modern man, for example by taking over all the television stations and broadcasting a rational message to everyone.
  • The resurrected Jesus has never appeared to anyone.
  • The Vedas we have is obviously the work of primitive men rather than God.
  • When we analyze prayer with statistics, we find no evidence that God is "answering prayers."
  • And so on…
Many people justify their faith with god as an explanation. What is the meaning of life? Where does time and space come from? Who created the physical constants? Because we lack knowledge of these things - and maybe never will, since they are questions like "what is the color of a second?" or "how does sound taste?" - god is there as an explanation. Let's say that god is the meaning of life, what then is the meaning of god? If god has a nature, who created that nature? If god created time and space, how can god exist without it? Since creation is an event in time, how could god create time? and who created god?


Another way to disprove the almighty god is that omnipotence leads to paradoxes. Also, if god knows everything, he knows what he will do in the "future" (in any dimension, not necessary the time dimension). He must have known that from the very start of his own existence. 
If everything must have been created, then god must have been created as well. If god is not created, then everything mustn't have a creator.

Nobody really believes in God

Schopenhauer once said something like:
"Man can do anything he wants, but he can not want whatever he wants."

Thesis is that people who claim to believe in god do not really do so. They just wish to believe in god. They somehow feel that their lives are meaningless without god, so they choose to close their eyes to evidence against the existence of god.

After reading this post you may object and say that god is beyond human understanding and can't be defined in scientific terms.

This is your decision, no coercion here. But if you want to be forgiven by God and come into a relationship with him, you can do so right now by asking him to forgive you and come into your life. If you feel good , feel happy worshipping stones & statues, if you are going to his place to get peace, carry on. Everyone has their own believes. Respect to those !!!!

Sunday, October 14, 2012

Frankttitude !!!

  Frankttitude (Frank + Attitude) , the apt word to realize the life as you feel and how you should feel.  Lets get into the frankness  to discuss our Attitude, 

as Corazon Aquino has correctly said :

 One must be frank to be relevant.  “

The most important decision we make in our lives is the attitude we choose to express each day when dealing with people or circumstances. The key is the realization that we choose. That’s right. Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference.

“ If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude.” -  Maya Angelou

You purposefully choose your attitude. Choosing a positive state of mind will lead to virtually unlimited success in your career and your life. The rewards of a positive attitude are enormous, if you are willing to keep your spirits up over the long term. 

“Excellence is not a skill. It is an attitude.”

A sustained negative attitude will kill you.  A negative attitude will lead to unhappiness, poor relationships, difficulty at work and ultimately, poor health. 

As you read this article, think about your day. We usually have a series of encounters with things and people whom we feel cause a reaction in us. In fact, we choose that reaction. We can choose to respond in a positive or negative way to these challenges. Our attitude about people, money, challenges, and life in general has a powerful influence on how we experience everything. Learning to adjust our attitude and perception is a powerful way to create positive change in every aspect of our life.



"Attitude comes from within us."  We may blame others, circumstances or events for our situation; however, the key is our response to those things or people.

I realize that incorporating empowering qualities into your current attitude can feel somewhat challenging at times. That’s because the whole subject of attitude is a little more involved than most people think. Your attitude is the outward expression of your emotional disposition toward just about everything. So, adopting a more empowering attitude is actually an inside job. That means it requires some internal alignment of your major core attributes.